You most likely have the "Smart Messages" feature activated — we created this so every user can start more conversations with the right people. It works like this:
- You choose messages that let you learn the person and how close you are to each other.
- We find the right people and send them messages on your behalf.
- You get the answers and choose who you want to stay in touch with.
Pros of "Smart Messages":
+ Messages are sent only to people with a suitable dating purpose and similar interests.
+ You e-meet a large number of people in a short amount of time.
+ It is free.
You can deactivate "Smart Messages" in the settings.